my heart hurts.
it hurts because my friends' are hurting.
it hurts because my community is hurting.
it hurts because my family is hurting.
injustice is so real.
i wish i could click my magic red heels and we would all be with you, Jesus, in Heaven.
what a day that will be, right? The day when the person to my left will be African and the one to my right will be Asian. When the person in front of me will be Italian, and the person in front of them will be German. When the neighborhood of Heaven will be filled with every tribe and tongue. Oh, my heart wants that so badly.
i hurt cause brothers and sisters hurt. it looks nice to raise your hands to Jesus on Sunday, but that doesn't give you a right to stick up your nose to your neighbor on Monday morning.
unity is a battle the enemy is fighting so hard against right now. God's Kingdom, His Chosen, His Children, the enemy is after us all. Can't you see it?!
I told someone today that when you become a Christian, it's like you're being clothed with Jesus for battle. Why are we acting like we have nothing to fight with? If my brother is hurting, i get to be the one he leans on. If my sister is wounded, in His strength, I get to help her up.
oh, my heart just feels like it's being ripped out. No, i'm not black. No, I might not fully understand what others go through on a day to day basis. but that doesn't mean, i don't feel pain when others hurt.
I know one thing, I love Jesus. Jesus is love. Love does not boast, love is not proud, love is kind. All I want is for people to know His love. It is perfect, unlike mine. I don't love well when I love out of my own strength. I get easily offended. I am prideful. I am weak. His love is perfect. His love COVERS ALL. His love is the gap-filler in our hearts. He is good. He is kind. He doesn't hate. He doesn't hurt. It is not His nature. The fall changed a lot, but it didn't change an All-Powerful God.
i just want you to know that today. You are loved. YOU, yeah you. Is hurt, on this side of Heaven inevitable, yeah. But can I tell you something? In our hurt, in injustice, in pain, HE is our voice, He is our hope, and He gets the final word.
we get an opportunity to stand united on a battle ground covered in blood of innocence, fear of hatred, and broken hearts. We get to stand, not on strength that is our own, because we are fragile.
we GET to stand, not as fragile humans, but as beloved children of God who have been given a family of all races, nations, tribes, and tongues. Oh, that will be my favorite day of all to see the you standing next to me, my black sister, singing better than I ever could, praising our same Jesus. I can't wait to hug my brother who speaks a language, on earth, I'll never know, as we praise our SAME Jesus.
I just want to stand with you. I just want to love you. Will you teach me how? teach us how, Jesus.
Living Fully Alive!
"And I will put this third into the fire, and refine them as one refines silver, and test them as gold is tested. They will call upon my name, and I will answer them. I will say, 'They are my people'; and they will say, 'The Lord is my God.'" Zechariah 13:9
Thursday, July 7, 2016
Wednesday, December 9, 2015
Hope Restored
I would just post an Instagram or short-and-sweet Facebook
update, but that won’t do justice to what He did.
So, if you’re feeling like
hope is lost, like joy is far beyond reach, and you have no idea what in the
world to do with the emotions you’re currently feeling, I understand. I promise, you're not alone.
For as long as I have been home, I have been attending The
Square. 3 months. Before Italy, never would I have imagined going on a retreat with a church that I had been attending for such a short time… but this is after Italy soooo life looks a little different. Evidently in the wave of reentry, 3 months brings around
emotions of emptiness, loneliness, sadness, and confusion in how to transfer
the new you in to old places. A lot right? Yes. In light of the insecurity and
the battle in my head of a billion reasons why I shouldn’t, I went on the
retreat. Suck it, Satan.
I knew two things coming into the retreat weekend: I was a
mess and didn’t know why, and I needed Jesus to show up desperately. D.E.S.P.E.R.A.T.E.L.Y.
Straight out of the gate, I was aware that God’s presence
was encircling us; it was hard not to notice. He didn’t want this to be just
another church “retreat,” He gave us space away for perspective to see the
revival that He is calling us into. What an honor. I stood amazed, yet felt so
empty. How? I still can’t tell you. But, all I know is the tears were clear
indicators that something inside was messed up and I was just ready to be done
with it. I was tired of feeling “all of the emotions” every moment of every day
without an explanation. I was worn out. I didn’t understand. I wanted
consistent joy, yet felt like I was grasping for something that was merely
slipping through my fingers instead. Through the tearstains from battling
depression and dealing with the reentry process of being back in America, I was
exhausted. I spent 3 months balancing trying to seek out joy with not being
able to find purpose in my time in Italy. Because, yes, it sounds glamorous to
have lived in the land so many dream to visit, but it wrecked me …in one of
those “all of the emotions” type of way.
Saturday came and I was struggling. Tears began when I
started to journal. All I could write was, “I feel empty but I believe
something is coming.” I was clinging to whatever I could at that point. A few
moments later, after trying to process what the heck was going on in my head
and failing miserably, I found myself sitting on a bed weeping on the shoulder
of one of my newest sweet friends. Ugly cry style, y’all. I hate not having
reasons for the things I do (for the most part), so crying when I can’t figure
out why I’m crying is hard. At one point she gently pointed out that this mark
of reentry is one where you just feel…empty. She reminded me that this season
is a balance of who you became in Italy and how that transfers back home. She
reached down and the next moment opened her hand with a giving key in it.
The
word on it:
Saturday night was powerful. One of
those nights that you try to explain to others, but the way the Holy Spirit
moved can’t be described by words known to man. All I said to God was I need
something. I need a word. I need to know you are here. I need freedom. I need
joy. Something. Anything. I’m sick of this. From the moment we entered into the
worship space, I knew The Holy Spirit was on the move. He hovered waiting for
His children to open themselves to what He was about to shift in the
atmosphere. The night ended with prophecy and healing. I was still grasping to
my prayer when Darren called up those who have felt brokenhearted to come and
be prayed over. I almost didn’t go. The enemy wanted me to think I wasn’t
worthy enough to claim that that was true and that I was crazy for thinking my
situation has left me heartbroken and empty. But as a faithful best friend who
had no idea what had just gone through my head, Brittany looked right at me and
said, “we’re goin up.” My heart was shattered, but I was still fighting the
battle. With every step, I walked onto the battlefield, claiming that the lies
had no place. As the Spirit moved, Darren stopped at me, held my head, and
said, “HOPE.”
“I see renewed hope.” Renewed Hope. Hope Restored.
I wept.
In the next moment they began praying over those who had
been struggling with depression and anxiety. Again, me. I wondered how many
times they would allow me to be prayed over cause evidently they knew my life
before they asked who needed prayer in these areas.
“You are Compassionate. There is Joy waiting. It is okay to laugh again.”
I wept. I wept because I wanted to laugh and mean it. I
wanted to believe that joy could be mine. The longer they prayed, the more I
could feel Jesus speak gently over me…
“I adore you!” I adore You.” I adore YOU.”
For the first time in my life, I believe Him. I actually
believe that hope is being renewed, that He adores me, that joy is possible.
I realized I was free.
We ask for breakthrough. We pray for freedom. God in His
grace, has the power to free us from the things that drag us down. In the
wide-open spaces of freedom, you are left standing without the barricades that
you grew so comfortable within. Our option is either to build back up the walls
or embrace the fact that I look like a flailing idiot who doesn’t actually know
what to do with the freedom I have prayed for for so long. From this moment on,
it is my decision if I run back to the chains that God has graciously unlocked
and thrown away. The walls that used to blind my eyes to hope and joy have
crumbled down, and I have a choice to live in the freedom or build them back because
it is more comfortable when I’m not exposed out in the open. That’s scary. But
it is what He made us for right?
“By entering through faith into
what God has always wanted to do for us—set us right with him, make us fit for
him—we have it all together with God because of our Master Jesus. And that’s
not all: We throw open our doors to God and discover at the same moment that he
has already thrown open his door to us. We find ourselves standing where we
always hoped we might stand—out in the wide open spaces of God’s grace and
glory, standing tall and shouting our praise.” Romans 5:1-2
We are left vulnerable, but not alone. I can’t put in to
words everything that God did this past weekend, but one thing is for sure: I
have never heard or seen God so clearly as I have to date. I think seeds were
planted, some that the fruit will be seen immediately but others I won’t fully
understand until months or years down the road. I am confident in what He is
doing, I feel parts of my heart mending as He gently speaks into them, “I adore
you.”
“There’s more to come: We
continue to shout our praise even when we’re hemmed in with troubles, because
we know how troubles can develop passionate patience in us, and how that
patience in turn forges the tempered steel of virtue, keeping us alert for
whatever God will do next. In alert expectancy such as this, we’re never left
feeling shortchanged. Quite the contrary—we can’t round up enough containers to
hold everything God generously pours into our lives through the Holy Spirit!”
Romans 5:3-5
Monday, July 20, 2015
The God Gaps
When you're a part of the work set in
motion by the creator of the universe, letting go becomes passing the baton. In
doing this, we don't have to say goodbye, we are just being entrusted with
different things. Sometimes this is because God has finished His work in us
that needed to be completed. But, especially recently, I've seen all too
clearly that my letting go opens up a gap, a place that God has chosen others
to fill for their appointed time. Selfishly the things that I love, I want to
hold tight to. But I'm realizing over and over again, that letting go opens a
gap, not only of the things were letting go of, but also in the things God
wants to give us. Gaps are good. Not easy, but good. Gaps leave space between
our capabilities and God divine purposes. We are not often asked to let go of
things that are insignificant to us. Most times we are asked to let go of
things we hold most dear so we can reset priorities, rearrange dreams, and
remember that we are not the faithful ones in the equation of God + Us. Life
has so often reminded me of the story of the boy with his dad walking along the
beach. The boy searching for the greatest seashell he can find, collects others
small ones along the way. He father, on the other hand, finds the biggest
seashell on the beach and wants to give it to his son. But in order for the son
to get the biggest seashell, he must let go of all he is holding on to. That is
my life in a nutshell ... Or seashell... Ohhhh so bad it's good ... Nope just
bad :/
But I feel like this season is so
much of letting go. So many things I love, He's telling me to leave. Little
moments and big moments alike that have defined my time in Italy and I have to
let it go. There has to be a gap. I think so often we live in a tension -
there's a gap and we need to fill it. God says there's a gap and only I can
fill it. You can strive all you like to try, but you'll wear yourself out and
never fill it all on your own. You can wait and walk with me or you can run at
your pace that you think the gap should be filled and become worn out. Living
in the gap is a gift when so often we see it as failure. God asks us to let go
of things to make room. Never have I ever let go of something to get less than
what I gave up in the first place. It's always more... Immeasurably more.
That's our God. Gaps change as the seasons pass. There's always something new
on the horizon. New is different, new is scary, new is surrender taken to a
different level. New leaves gaps. Sometimes "new" is going back to
something that no longer looks familiar. My new will be walking back to the
place I call home and not knowing what I'm walking into, where I'm supposed to
go, or how long I'll be there. And it's ok.
It's ok. It is well. I believe it with all of my heart. I
am incapable of figuring my life out successfully. My plans are so often
changed for the better, that stepping back and surrendering looks so much more
fulfilling. Not easy by any means, says the girl who would if she could plan
every moment of the next 5 years of my life. But I love that in Italy, of all
places, God showed me what surrender looks like, what being refined and coming
out victorious on the other side feels like, what walking through a scary
wilderness with nothing to offer and opening my hands to accept Him... And it
was always enough. He was always more than enough. Everything I ever lacked, He
gave me more. Everything I ever dreamed, He gave me so much more. As I am about
to leave this season and into the next, I'm confident of one thing: I'm not
walking into easy. Yes, one season is soon to be over, but God isn't calling me
back into a life of "I have it all figured out and life is exactly how I
planned." And if I'm being honest, I can say I don't want that life
anymore. Sometimes God has to call us out of comfort to show us we are capable
of more than predicable with Him. The last 20 months have been anything but
predictable. But my list of things I would have liked to happen have been so
far exceeded, my hands remain open in surrender because His ways are higher and
SOOOO MUCH BETTER! I claimed immeasurably more coming to Italy, and that is
exactly what it was. And the amazing thing is that God doesn't give us a quota
of immeasurably more. Immeasurably More isn't over now that I've almost
finished this season - God is immeasurably more. Walking with Him always gives
us immeasurably more - but it's not always in the ways we think. God keeps us
guessing, that's the fun and scary part! The gaps don't scare Him. They invite
Him in to more of our lives. In the next season I'll claim the gaps and believe
for only immeasurably more to fill it. He is so good. I'm just in awe and so
thankful.
Sunday, June 7, 2015
Ticket Booked Into My New Season
I'll be honest. I wasn't going to share this blog with many people. I feel like in sharing this, its making the statement to God in saying, "I accept what is coming." Time in Italy has shown me how to accept the unexpected and look forward to the destruction of my "good" plans and believing for God's bigger plans….SO SO much bigger.
So, here I am, sitting on my balcony in Rome, Italy, watching the clouds roll in and the rain begin to fall, and all I know to do is praise Him. Let this be my declaration to live with the open hands and accept what He's offering and where He is taking me.
Time to make room.
So, here I am, sitting on my balcony in Rome, Italy, watching the clouds roll in and the rain begin to fall, and all I know to do is praise Him. Let this be my declaration to live with the open hands and accept what He's offering and where He is taking me.
Time to make room.
April 16, 2015
I booked my ticket into my next season today.
I just realized that my time in this season has been given
an end date. If you had asked me in September of last year if I would have been
happy about moving on, I would have said yes. I would have been ready for
everything that was to come, and I would have known exactly where I would fit
back in to life in Georgia. Well, this isn’t September of last year anymore,
and the tears have already flowed thinking about leaving this season, when I
still have a few more months. The fact that that is my reaction in the first
place, is nothing short of a miracle. I know that sounds crazy, but the moment
I realized God changed my heart from the girl who wanted to go “home” to the
one who was ready to embrace this season and jump all in to what He wanted to
give me, was when I could actually feel chains breaking loose. There was
freedom of gripping so tightly to my plans and living in the state of surrender
that I desired, but I knew was way to scary to embrace. God asked me to stay in
September because He knew I wasn’t ready to go into a new season without the
things that were to come in fulfilling the plans in this season. I “knew” where
I wanted to be, and for most of my time last year, I lived “knowing” I would be
there if I could just get out of this season. Ha. That’s no way to live in the
first place, I can see that now. To live in full surrender is probably the
scariest, craziest, and most fulfilling thing God could ever ask anyone to do.
I’ve learned that instead of gripping to things that I want to happen, I can
hold tightly to the things I know to be true, and let God, the giver of dreams
and desires, fulfill the things inside of me that I don’t ACTUALLY know how to
fulfill properly…MIND BLOWING, and difficult.
Going home never seemed scary until now. Only because the
“me” that left, isn’t the “me” that is returning. There are changes that I
already know will take place that I would have never dreamed would be true. The
letting go of dreams and finding new ones. Being given a voice, new passions,
new hopes, new places to go, is empowering. My plane ticket isn’t taking me
back home to do and be what I was in January 2014. God changed everything. I
see Him differently. To see the reality of how He works when all seems
hopeless. To see the way He provides when you’re up against a wall and all you
can do is pray. I’ve seen God provide people for my church EXACTLY at the
moment we needed them. Little did they know they were stepping into something
so much bigger than themselves. I’ve seen God provide money when I just wanted
to go see my family in August. I’ve seen God turn my small salary into JUST
ENOUGH every single month. I may not always come out in the positives, but it’s
never negative, it’s always just the amount that was needed. I’ve seen God
change hearts to love Him. I’ve seen God begin a great work in the hearts of
children. I’ve seen people step up in times of need, not to be “seen” but
because their genuine love for Jesus drives them to serve and to love as He
did. I’ve seen God ignite passions in people and I’ve seen platforms being
built for them to carry out those passions for His glory. I’ve seen God set
dreams on fire to allow greater dreams to take root and begin to grow.
God in the comfort zone looks so small. But God, when you
have nothing to give, when you step out of comfort, when you say “yes” even
when it seems crazy, is beautiful.
I will probably be processing how big God is just from seeing Him so
clearly over the last year and a half for the rest of my life. Once you taste
and see Him in this way, life doesn’t look the same. I believe that God isn’t
calling me to step back into something, He’s calling me to step into something new,
something I haven’t even thought of yet.
Even so, It Is Well With My Soul
Even so, It Is Well With My Soul
Tuesday, September 16, 2014
Staying.
Sometimes staying is harder than leaving.
Sometimes being faithful means standing still and
remaining in a place of desperation for God.
Sometimes, even when God knows the desires of your heart, He still tells you to stay where you don’t necessarily want to be.
Sometimes, the planner in you wants to figure out where
God is going to take you next, when He says, “you’re right where I want you,
Beloved.”
Sometimes, He says to stay in the waves that are crashing
over top of you, yet in uncertainty, you must keep pressing on because you will
NOT be defeated.
Sometimes, nothing makes sense….ever… and God says, “trust
me.”
You know, I remember telling God to send me. “Take me
deeper than my feet could ever wander, and my faith would be made stronger in
the presence of my Savior.” I dubbed that “my song”… and then God said, “I’m
taking you to Italy.” Blindfolded, I went. I arrived with nothing less than a
massive dose of reality… I am here for one year. My pep talks became, “You only
have ___ more months. You can make it. Trust that you are here for a reason.
God doesn’t do things by accident.” Months have gone by, time has passed
quickly and January has been staring me in the face, giving me perseverance for
the short time I have left …when God changed everything. Doesn’t He always.
A few weeks ago, I sat in a group with about 15 people
praying for a new church to be planted in Rome. God quietly spoke, “Your time
isn’t up.” As the meeting went on, my spirit started to feel some type of
way…and I didn’t exactly like it. Two weeks prior, when asked if I would stay
in Rome longer past January my response was "only if God sends a lightning
bolt down from Heaven and tells me to stay I will…otherwise, I'm out."
Well, it wasn't exactly that, but prompting from the Holy Spirit did more than
the non-existent lightning bolt I was hoping for. Little by little, things
became clear. “I want you to stay.” “You aren’t finished here.” “I have begun a
good work, I will carry it out to completion. Just be patient.” And then today
happened.
I sat on my bed watching Ben Stuart’s talk on Song of
Solomon. I thought I was free of commentary about my status in Rome…but no.
Leave it to God to speak into your situation when about staying when you are
listening to a talk on relationships.
“Sometimes you need to stay and pick the weeds to reap the
harvest.”
The end. I just sat back and said, “I hear you, God.” What
harvest? I can’t see anything past the tip of my nose let alone what God has
planted and will be harvesting in the future. I’ve never been more exhausted in
a nine-month period than these last nine months. I’ve also never been so in awe
with who God has shown Himself to be. When I say He is my everything, my heart
bursts with excitement because He actually is! None of this, “Oh I’m saying it
to make me look good.” There is no one here to “look good” for…so that isn’t
even an option. He is good. I have seen His hand at work. He is changing everything I know to be true about me and replacing it with the truth of who He says I am!
I began to write an email today, and realized God was
writing it for me. All I ended it with was, “I will stay until He tells me to
go.”
I will stay until He tells me to go.
As soon as those words posted to my computer screen, I knew I had to stop fighting. I was stressing myself out with trying to find a way out, all the while saying I trusted God’s plan. In that moment, I got my answer. The one I didn’t want, but deep down I knew it was coming. Stay. When January has been my check out point, now God has turned it into the beginning of a new season, new months, and new adventures. He began something, and He is not finished. So, as of about 11:00am this morning, I told Him I would stay. When I talked with the family tonight, and that looks to be July. I have a calm about it, but at the same time, God is ripping me to shreds. I told Him what I want, He said, not yet. I trusted Him to bring me to Italy, and I trust that His plans to bring forth life in whatever seeds He has planted. Nonetheless, I sit here, stunned at what He is capable of. I can stand on His promises. I can walk in His strength. And I can carry on in His abundant love. My immeasurably more in Italy just added a few more months. It is well with my soul. My immeasurable more is staying in the unknown and tasting and SEEING with my own eyes that The Lord is good. If I sat here and said that this wasn't difficult, it would be the biggest lie I've ever told (maybe next to the lie I told in 4th grade that I would help my 125 year old neighbor ride his bike everyday… :)). But, He word is good. His love has carried me through 9 months of Italian struggles, and He isn't done! He is faithful. How great is our God!
As soon as those words posted to my computer screen, I knew I had to stop fighting. I was stressing myself out with trying to find a way out, all the while saying I trusted God’s plan. In that moment, I got my answer. The one I didn’t want, but deep down I knew it was coming. Stay. When January has been my check out point, now God has turned it into the beginning of a new season, new months, and new adventures. He began something, and He is not finished. So, as of about 11:00am this morning, I told Him I would stay. When I talked with the family tonight, and that looks to be July. I have a calm about it, but at the same time, God is ripping me to shreds. I told Him what I want, He said, not yet. I trusted Him to bring me to Italy, and I trust that His plans to bring forth life in whatever seeds He has planted. Nonetheless, I sit here, stunned at what He is capable of. I can stand on His promises. I can walk in His strength. And I can carry on in His abundant love. My immeasurably more in Italy just added a few more months. It is well with my soul. My immeasurable more is staying in the unknown and tasting and SEEING with my own eyes that The Lord is good. If I sat here and said that this wasn't difficult, it would be the biggest lie I've ever told (maybe next to the lie I told in 4th grade that I would help my 125 year old neighbor ride his bike everyday… :)). But, He word is good. His love has carried me through 9 months of Italian struggles, and He isn't done! He is faithful. How great is our God!
Sunday, July 20, 2014
The Truth About Italy. The UnSugarCoated Details.
What Italy is really like:
For those of you who know me – I’m sure I’ve given my fair
share of input about my current adventure in Italy. Through the good, the bad,
and the ugly I’m more, now than ever, aware of God’s constant presence in and
around me.. No – I’m not perfect at remembering, and I would be lying if I said
in the raging tantrums of my 4 year old little rascal I can constantly be in
tune to how God would have me to love him instead of wanting to scream and run
away. I am still learning. Not a day goes by that God doesn’t have something in
store. Many have asked how Italy is going, and with over half of this year
under my belt – its about to get real up in herrrr! Sugar coat? I will not.
Here is the truth about what my life is like in Italy and here it is the
constant goodness of my God who holds me fast in this season.
Italy is beautiful. Sometimes, I have a hard time believing
this place is real. God took extra care to make this country absolutely
stunning in every way! I am fully aware that I am living people’s dreams right
now. Sometimes, this is overwhelming. I am a people pleaser and therefore I
don’t want others to feel bad about not being here. I know it sounds crazy –
but I’m just telling the truth. It’s hard to balance the dreams of others and
my reality that is beyond dreams I could ever have had for myself. So, God
speaks into this saying “ I dreamt dreams for you before you had dreams to
dream. Be present on this adventure that I am taking you on! Trust me to
fulfill my dreams for everyone else in My timing.” I go back and forth between
feeling bad for those who dreamed of this life and trying not to sound too
excited about where I am in fear that I will be hated for the life I am living
and what people can see from the outside.
I want to encourage those in seasons of beauty: SOAK IT IN,
Live it up, and learn how to see God’s face in it all! For those waiting on
beauty, feeling overlooked, and wondering where adventure is, I challenge you
to: SOAK IT IN!! See the things around you that you have already been given.
God is waiting to be found in every area of our lives but sometimes our
stubbornness hinders us from realizing His goodness through it ALL! Not one day
in the span of your life is wasted, worthless, or overlooked by God. Not one
moment…ever! So anything telling you otherwise is a lie. You can go ahead and
dispel that – ready go!
Italy is slowing grabbing of pieces of my heart and allowing
me to feel and experience emotions that I never knew I had the capability to
feel. Some good, some terrifying. In these moments, God continues to speak into
my dreams. I had a conversation with two amazing friends when they came to
visit Sorrento. They asked me what my dream job would be after this year is
over. I couldn’t answer. Not because I didn’t want to, but because I honestly
have never allowed myself to believe that I was worthy of dreaming dreams and
asking God for them. I didn’t feel worthy to live life into immeasurably more
but God is showing me that His dreams far outweigh my fear of dreaming for
myself. So, I sat down to write out my dreams… not out of fear but out of
expectation and it makes my heart race with excitement. I feel like a little
child sitting at the feet of Jesus asking what is coming next and waiting in
trust that what I have written will be fulfilled. I’ve come far enough to know
that how I think God will do this, is probably opposite of how He actually
will, so I will wait in His presence and trust Him to go before and prepare
what He has.
A day in the life in Italy. On any given day, I will meet at
least one new person. Italians are generous, loving, and if you are part of the
family you will feel nothing less than protected and provided for. It is
incredible. I was walking on the street one day to a hike in a place called
Baia Di Jeranto. I stopped to ask a girl for directions and she told me to go
to the bus stop down the street. Well, I am impatient and don’t like to wait so
I kept walking past the bus stop….and kept walking. I found out there was a bus
strike that day and I would have to walk 3 more miles to get me to my
destination and hike another 3.5 miles to the bay where I was headed in the
first place. Next thing I know, the same girl pulls up on the side of me with
her motorino and tells me to get on! She drove me the next few miles because
she didn’t want me to have to walk that far before I was going to hike! WHAT?! Generosity.
She was looking out for a stranger, not because she had to or felt pressured,
but that is how Italians are!
You wont ever leave hungry…EVER. If you don’t gain weight,
they will think you are sick and just try to feed you more food. The movies
don’t lie people! This is real life! On any given day, you will eat enough
pasta, pizza, and cheese to feed a small country. I am constantly amazed by the
intake of food and the small body sizes of the Italian people…it doesn’t make
sense to me, and I’m sure it never will.
I Au-Pair for 3 children, 12, 10, and 4. With two girls
entering their teenage years and a boy who is …. Ummm… difficult, I fight to
stay sane on a daily basis. There are so many beautiful moments, and so many
really, really difficult ones. But, as I mentioned before, God is teaching me
to see His face in ALL of it, not just the good. I’m learning how to love when
I don’t want to, I’m learning how to communicate through walls of struggle and
hurt, and I’m learning how to navigate situations I never thought I would ever
be in. This is a fight in the good and bad, and my grip on God is tighter than
ever. I’ve seen beauty in conversations about God. I’m getting a taste of my
own medicine with the oldest…as she acts JUST like I did when I was younger
(which was obviously perfect….oh wait…). I see the middle struggle to be seen,
so I can show her that she is loved and seen not only by me but also by her
Savior. I see a youngest who yearns for discipline, but balancing love and
boundaries is harder than it may sound for a child who isn’t used to that. All
of this is in the place where God is telling me that the REAL Kristi is to be
found as well. Needless to say, it is a lot. I am in a constant state of
surrender…. Knowing I can’t carry all of this well without Him.
I’m proud of my Italian roots. I’ve learned so much about
the culture here, and so much of my life makes sense because of it. My mom’s
hospitality, my dad’s adventurous spirit… and stubbornness, my grandma’s
feistiness, my granny’s devotion….everything. I get to little by little piece
together my history while in the place so much of my family lived, worked, and
loved. There is so much more that I am expecting for in the second half of my
year here…and all of it, I’m not sure how to put into words. I know one thing,
I’m trusting without borders, I’m loving without boundaries, and I’m learning
without trying to tell God that I know better. He’s smart to put me in a place
of unknown so I can only depend on His strength and trust that His timing is
perfect, His heart is good, and His dreams for me are immeasurably more! I'm being romanced by Jesus in the beauty of His creation. He is putting me back together, little by little, He is uncovering the Kristi that I have stuffed down because of fear. He is breathing life into places I never knew were dead. He is showing me His face in places beyond my wildest dreams. Italy. Jesus. Kristi. Life. That is what it is really like.
Thursday, July 10, 2014
I Lift My Eyes!
“I lift my eyes unto the hills. Where does my help come
from? My help comes from the Lord, maker of heaven and earth.” (Psalms 121:1-3)
I’ve had these words stuck in my head for the last few
hours and all I can do it to keep repeating them over and over. It made me
wonder what David was thinking when he wrote these words. If I look to the
mountains, my cry isn’t immediately going to be answered. If I set a goal and
would like to attain it and I look to the hills, my goal isn’t going to be
reached in that instant. I don't recall a time I asked advice from someone and their response was, "look to the hills!" So what
help will it do when I am in need of saving that is outside of my capabilities?
Look to the hills, David says. Why?
The other day I swam at the base of a mountain, in a bay
hidden far away from civilization. Not even realizing it, God was answering this
future question for me. I didn’t stand at the base of the mountain, look up,
and list off the things that I want to unfold in my life. I swam at the base of
the mountain in compete awe and wonder. There were no words that I could
possibly speak that would have graced the surface of the joy I knew that
instant. I begged God to help me remember the view, the peace, and the love He
was showing me.
So, why then, do we look to the hills? Because, when we
look to the hills we aren't looking into the face of a solution to our difficulties, we are looking into the face of the
Creator.
We see God in His greatness, in the intricate details of His creation and it gives us a perspective of the beautiful God that says He loves US and that He has GOOD in store FOR us.
I couldn’t look up to the hills and remember the things that so frequently consume my mind: wants, needs, desires, dreams. I sat in awe. Speechless. I felt as though I was starring into the face of God, and everything else faded away. David knew that in order for him to face what God was setting in front of him, He had to be able to stop and see the face of the One who was going to help him through it. We look up to the hills to see the greatness of our God. We look to the hills because we are given greater perspective to see that our help comes from the One who created the massive structure in front of us, and in one word from His mouth, it can and will move.
We see God in His greatness, in the intricate details of His creation and it gives us a perspective of the beautiful God that says He loves US and that He has GOOD in store FOR us.
I couldn’t look up to the hills and remember the things that so frequently consume my mind: wants, needs, desires, dreams. I sat in awe. Speechless. I felt as though I was starring into the face of God, and everything else faded away. David knew that in order for him to face what God was setting in front of him, He had to be able to stop and see the face of the One who was going to help him through it. We look up to the hills to see the greatness of our God. We look to the hills because we are given greater perspective to see that our help comes from the One who created the massive structure in front of us, and in one word from His mouth, it can and will move.
If you are facing trials, I urge you to find a mountain,
sit at its base and look up.
As big as that mountain looks to you, that is infinitely times how much bigger God is to the problems you are facing.
Look up and know His word is true, and His promises to you WILL be fulfilled. Look up and know that if He wants the mountain to move, it will, if He wants the mountain to stay, it will, and if He wants the mountain to crumble to the ground, it WILL because He says so. And as His children, we get to live in that strength, that joy, and that love. That is the God you serve, and THAT is the God who sees beyond the mountain. When you are sitting at the base, you can't see the other side. God offers us peace because He ALONE knows what is coming. You can't be in the valley of the mountain and at it's peak…He already is. Rest in looking up.
Remember He is in it WITH you and beyond it FOR you!
As big as that mountain looks to you, that is infinitely times how much bigger God is to the problems you are facing.
Look up and know His word is true, and His promises to you WILL be fulfilled. Look up and know that if He wants the mountain to move, it will, if He wants the mountain to stay, it will, and if He wants the mountain to crumble to the ground, it WILL because He says so. And as His children, we get to live in that strength, that joy, and that love. That is the God you serve, and THAT is the God who sees beyond the mountain. When you are sitting at the base, you can't see the other side. God offers us peace because He ALONE knows what is coming. You can't be in the valley of the mountain and at it's peak…He already is. Rest in looking up.
Remember He is in it
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